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#230541
I have recently experienced something really strange; I turned down a good paying job (for the area) because it's more cost effective for me to stay home. We get SSI (Social Supplementary Income) for my autistic son and the cost of babysitting and latchkey services means that we would actually be $150 per month worse off if I took the job! We'd lose the SSI and have to pay out over $700 per month in babysitting/latchkey services. What has this world come to when it's more cost effective to not work. Back home in the UK,the government helps you out with additional income, working tax credits etc to help with those babysitting costs, not in "the land of opportunity" though! :rolleyes:
#230546
I agree, but understand that given a working environment, you'd have the opportunity to ear more in time, also for some strange reason... jobs opportunities will present themselves more when you're working. It's kind of like married men getting more attention from women than before they got married. :hehe:

Otherwise you're in a trap that you can only get out of unless the right job comes along.

I went through a stint year ago where my family lived on a nearly negative income for a couple of year and had to rely on bonuses, tax returns and family charity to make ends meet.

America is the land of opportunity, I firmly believe that, but like so many other things in this country the middle class gets left bearing the full brunt of the economy. Below poverty you get help, if you're filthy rich, you get the tax breaks and loopholes. So the opportunity is there, you just won't get help getting on that bus. In essence 50 % of the country is living with about a month's worth of cushion between the life they live and being out on the street... pretty damned close to hand to mouth.

The statistic is that the top two percent of the population holds over 50% of the country's wealth... it may even be higher than that now. That wealth has to come from somewhere, and since it doesn't come from the folks living below the poverty line, it's the middle class bearing the brunt and the divide get broader.

Look at this bullsh!t tax plan the nation's politicians have just compromised on.

Democrat, we can't govern.
Republicans, we want what's worse for everyone.

Hope you and your family soon get through this phase of your lives.
#230549
I realise that when working other opportunities become more frequent and if this job was permanent I would have taken it as it would offer long term stability but it was a short term 5 month contract but it paid excellently for the area in which I live, $2.25 more per hour than the average for Wichita. Because we would lose our SSI for Conner if I worked and would have to reapply after my contract finished if I couldn't find another job straight away, it would put us in a really crappy situation for a few months while the bureaucrats decide whether we should be allowed to have the SSI back or not! It seems like a lot of hassle for a few months or work! Plus there are other considerations, my son Conner gets on average 3 days off school every month for staff training and in-service days which adds to the babysitting costs plus he has a whole bunch of appointments to help with his autism coming up over the next six months, for which either myself or my wife would have to take time off work to take him to these appointments!

This is not a decision we took lightly but we have to think about the immediate future given our personal situation!
#230560
Hope you and your family soon get through this phase of your lives.

Thats really all I hope for aswell Jason. :)

Best,
Gregg

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