Good post!! 
Where do you think it all started going wrong for McLaren?
When they made young Lewis equal to Alonso in his first F1 season ever.
Young driver, regardless raw talent, needs time to mature. Like some complex dishes needing time to cook on slow fire, otherwise overcook on the outside but remains raw on the inside. You don't want to elevate young driver to celebrity that quick; his expectations will skyrocket and he will never be realistic or satisfied in that environment.
I think this will do good for both Lewis and Mclaren, to break off unhealthy relation they have jump started before its time. I hope McL will not make the same mistake with this new youngster Peres.
I agree with part of your statement. This will be good for Lewis.
But the bit about not giving both drivers equal status-don't agree with that. He earnt equal status by being as fast. Perez also should be equal. Number one status should come about by who performs best on the track not on what the team mandate at the beginning of the year.
I think part of the problem was McLaren never really stopped thinking of Lewis as the young teanager they nurtured.
I think psychologigal problem (if any) is more likely to be on Lewis than on McLaren side.
I also think most young drivers who got in competitive seat (and equal opportunity) end up having more than average number of avoidable accidents, compared to drivers left to mature before being dropped into the heat; think Pastor, think Domain. Think younger Lewis. It is not about what drivers want. It is about what is good for them.
Is it really much different than, say, fighter pilots? Do they get to fly real missions right after introduced to their F16/F18 seats? Or do they fly hundreds of training and simulation missions before seeing real action? Talent is important, but there is no substitute for skill, experience, finesse that comes with time and maturity.
There is just no way driver who got his first F1 seat molded should be let to compete for title. No one is THAT good. And it is not good for the team not to tame raw talents.
At the end, driver is part of the team, not the other way around.
Just my humble opinion. We both know we are not going to agree on this one.
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