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#241787
I almost guarantee that you would love your second son equally. You cant imagine loving another more than your current son, but when number two arrives that will change.


You may LOVE both your sons the same, but you can TREAT them differently. Therein lies the issue, and it will always be that way.
#241809
You don't go to F1 to learn overtaking skills... perhaps his speed meant he never had to learn them. Spend the winters Karting and see what he can gain there, but I agree with you, given his talent for qualifying a car... I think there are only two drivers currently on the grid that can get more out of car.

You can count that even on a cartoon hand.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FW5z415hH0E

You really shouldn't be making mistakes like that one in Formula One. Having said that...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnCsG0Dl ... re=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iii-7zV5pzY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3-LB85x ... re=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOBKA9q_DWU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6CAdI8a8fs4

:hehe:



They make mistakes all the time...
That's why we love to watch them! It shows us that they are still human beings... :wink:
#241892
Favouritism is every where. If I had another son? I would still favour Josh [My current son] Just for the fact of the love and effort put into it. Ferrari Fernando is number one, @ McLaren it is equal which i think is fantastic really. RBR Vettel, Mercedes dumbly enough Schumi is? :banghead: Williams Barichello is, Sauber Kumi is, Lotus Trulli is, Virgin Glock is, HRT I AM NUMBER 1 :D It is every where, even in football? Moto Gp? Stoner will be the golden boy at HRC?


I almost guarantee that you would love your second son equally. You cant imagine loving another more than your current son, but when number two arrives that will change.



Hmmm There won't be another but believe me it is possible my Father loved my brother more...No crap Ewww and Arghhsss PLEASE!! But there is one problem there my son is the son I have alwasy wanted he has the name I wanted? He looks like me and is my own mini me....No one could ever be a better son nor daughter than the one I have now.


This is going off-topic, but what you just said just feels... wrong... I'm not a father yet (and I have no idea if I'll be, I'm still too young), but I believe a parent loves their children because they are their children, so they take care of them, educate them and love them no matter how they turn out to be. I want to believe my parents would love me equally if I was a different person - I'd still be their son, right? And part of loving someone is accepting them for what they are - so it shouldn't matter if your son has the name you wanted, or looks like you... he is going to be his own persona and not a mirror of what you wanted to be, or what you imagine to be "perfect". Because if you keep thinking that way, one day, you may find out your son turned out different in some ways from what you expected, and then will you be disappointed? Is he not so perfect anymore? Would you stop loving him... you can't, because love is just that, accepting and caring no matter what.

(that said, I wish your son(s) the best, to have a fullfilled, healthy, happy life :wink: )
#241893
Favouritism is every where. If I had another son? I would still favour Josh [My current son] Just for the fact of the love and effort put into it. Ferrari Fernando is number one, @ McLaren it is equal which i think is fantastic really. RBR Vettel, Mercedes dumbly enough Schumi is? :banghead: Williams Barichello is, Sauber Kumi is, Lotus Trulli is, Virgin Glock is, HRT I AM NUMBER 1 :D It is every where, even in football? Moto Gp? Stoner will be the golden boy at HRC?


I almost guarantee that you would love your second son equally. You cant imagine loving another more than your current son, but when number two arrives that will change.



Hmmm There won't be another but believe me it is possible my Father loved my brother more...No crap Ewww and Arghhsss PLEASE!! But there is one problem there my son is the son I have alwasy wanted he has the name I wanted? He looks like me and is my own mini me....No one could ever be a better son nor daughter than the one I have now.


This is going off-topic, but what you just said just feels... wrong... I'm not a father yet (and I have no idea if I'll be, I'm still too young), but I believe a parent loves their children because they are their children, so they take care of them, educate them and love them no matter how they turn out to be. I want to believe my parents would love me equally if I was a different person - I'd still be their son, right? And part of loving someone is accepting them for what they are - so it shouldn't matter if your son has the name you wanted, or looks like you... he is going to be his own persona and not a mirror of what you wanted to be, or what you imagine to be "perfect". Because if you keep thinking that way, one day, you may find out your son turned out different in some ways from what you expected, and then will you be disappointed? Is he not so perfect anymore? Would you stop loving him... you can't, because love is just that, accepting and caring no matter what.

(that said, I wish your son(s) the best, to have a fullfilled, healthy, happy life :wink: )




Your an idealist Hansy. People are unfortuntely like that, favouring children, not favouring child because they werent first born, not faouvring child cause it doesnt like as much like parents as other child. The world is well and truly F*cked up. Im lucky enough to be 1/6 kids, and ive always felt we've all been treated by the same rule fair, i applaud my parents for that. But most people arent like that. Not just in parenting, but in basic human compassion and morality, some people just DO NOT care.

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