I'd say it's sheer material technology, perhaps allied to a slightly higher level of downforce generated (which would account for at least some of the extra force pushing the wing and especially the nose down at speed). I don't think a 'weak point' in construction is a likely reason though, because that increases the risk of a part failing. Elasticity is very relevant to all this and that is related to the materials, but as you say exactly how the material works we'll probably never know.
i'd say RB's front wing does give more downforce, and the wing is slightly more flexible, thus giving RB a bit more flex than the others; but the shocking bit is just HOW INCREDIBLY MUCH more the RB wing moves.............
edit - just to add this (incredibly basic) graph that might help demonstrate the potential properties of whatever material they are using:
Basically the elasticity of the material increases massively after a certain point. It's definitely possible but i don't know the mechanics of it. Of course, this is still just me speculating, but it makes sense.
sure, that would be it........ now show me which material could do just that: exponential deflection past a linear range, without permanent deformity. ahem, the material must be solid

Find any material, ever encountered... even in NASA stuff.... just find any (solid) material with similar qualities and i'd say that's likely what they're doing.
[i havent tried, but i'd bet you'll end up running into hydraulic/pneumatic/vapor operated devices such as shock absorbers, vapor mechanisms etc....]
After they find such a material, they'd have to control the downforce on the wing to not allow just a liiiiittle too much flex, or the wing hits the floor.... we're talking past a certain point, very little extra force will provide ever increasing deflection...... effectively giving the RBs a top speed.
hmmmmm if the wings show to be much stiffer in long-straight speed tracks such as Sepang i would say its possible they have this...... but would they give themselves a top speed to allow more flexing?? maybe this is why they keep struggling at straight line (and not the Renault engine)?? but then why did they go shopping for more power (merc engine)??
i'm not married to my ideas........ and i'm not even against anybody's, but someone must come up with a strong case........ c'mon FIA! just make the darned thing illegal so they can explain it

Came out fighting indeed.