I'm not a fan of Hamilton but I also not a hater either. I feel that Hamilton is getting increasingly frustrated by Red Bull and Sebastian Vettel's dominance in the first six races of the season. He is making many moves that is simply not on and ends in a crash. He is clearly a talented driver but he seems to lack maturity in his driving especially when stuck in the pack, taking unacceptable risks rather than biding his time and living for another day.
And here you've pointed out exactly why he's either liked or disliked by people simply because of his all or nothing style. I know you're a Button fan and given this explanation is makes a lot of sense because living for another day and not risking it is his style. We saw it during his WDC year in 09 and it works for him and his brand of racing.
I believe that Hamilton will become increasingly frustrated by his lack of winning which will ultimately cost him another world title unless he has a more superior car than everyone else. This is why I believe Hamilton is not a great driver, good driver, yes but not great; I believe he is trying too hard to be his idol Ayrton Senna!
But here is where you depart from what we've observed and venture out into conjecture. Everyone has seen a lack of winning this year, so what is the alternative? Letting your team put enough bits on the car where you can eventually catch the RBs when it may be too little too late? Sitting back and biding your time and accepting the odd podium and being able to say you had a mistake free year? Hamilton remains the only one that's stolen a win from Vettel. That may change this year that may not, but time will answer the OPs question.
Everyone has a right to their opinion here, and as much as Big Azza asks, I don't think this thread is about trying to change people's opinion at all, on the contrary it's for people to state their most articulate reason why they've come to the conclusion they've come to and so far so good.
In the end, what we'll find is that people that support Hamilton do so because they have a preference for his driving style. It's the lesson we all learned in grade school sports growing up, where you're encouraged to try even if you fail, than not try at all.
People that do not support or worse do not like Hamilton do so because they dislike his personality or level of maturity or take no prisoners style and certainly his off track interviews and antics and that's got absolutely nothing to do with his driving... but that's ok, because it's all a preference, if people would simply accept this and move on, without having the need to change someone's opinion to reflect something more like their own, there would be little moderating needed on the forum.
I'm staying optimistic there DD and I disagree with you, optimism is considerably better than hope, because hope is based on faith, optimism is based on confidence.